| Destination: Vermont Twenty-five years after the | | | | asked if he could help me. I said, "No, I was just |
| war ended--and often longer than that since a loved | | | | walking." |
| one died in it--they still come to The Wall. Eighteen | | | | Eventually, Miner came back to the volunteer with |
| years after The Vietnam Veterans Memorial was | | | | the book. There was a FAC, he said, a Capt. Miller |
| dedicated in Washington, 16 years after the first | | | | from Massachusetts. He was shot down and killed. |
| moving walls were built and began touring the | | | | "The guy looked it up and he looked at me and said, |
| country, they still come, oblivious to the differences | | | | `It's right behind you,' '' Miner said. |
| in size or scope of the structure. | | | | When Miner became president of Chapter 601 in |
| They don't come for its size and scope. They come | | | | Bennington, he vowed to bring The Moving Wall back. |
| for the names. | | | | He formed a committee, contacted organizations |
| "There's nothing abstract about somebody's name," | | | | around the town, and got commitments for money |
| said John Devitt, one of The Moving Wall's builders. | | | | needed to cover the expenses. |
| "You look at a name and you think of a person who | | | | "The level of community support was mind boggling, |
| had hopes and dreams and family and friends." | | | | unbelievable," he said. |
| Fred Frappiea Jr., had such hopes and dreams. They | | | | The local newspaper did a story a day, business |
| ended on ending on March 22, 1968, in Thua Thien, | | | | owners gave employees time off work to read |
| South Vietnam. He was 20 years old, a PFC in the | | | | names from The Wall, food was donated, and the |
| 101st Airborne, Division when he was killed in action. | | | | National Guard provided tents. |
| His name appears on Panel 45E, Line 55. His mother, | | | | "It was remarkable," Miner said. "I think a lot of it |
| Lona Frappiea, 78, has never seen it. | | | | came from people needing to know. They came |
| She went to The Moving Wall when it came to | | | | from all over the state and from Massachusetts and |
| Bennington, Vermont., near her home in Saxtons | | | | New York, too. Every time I turned around, there |
| River. But she could not bring herself to look at his | | | | was a story happening." |
| name. To look at his name would mean that she had | | | | Like the accident of his standing in front of the name |
| to give him up. | | | | he sought, coincidences and connections came from |
| "I'll go where The Wall is, but I won't go where his | | | | surprising places. |
| name is," she said. "I've never gone." | | | | A veteran seeks a Gold Star Mother to talk about |
| When The Moving Wall came to Vermont, she went | | | | her son, his buddy from Vietnam. Two days later, a |
| on a day set aside to honor Gold Star parents. She | | | | retired couple from New York ask about a name, a |
| wrote a letter to her son. | | | | boy the man taught in grammar school. |
| A volunteer placed it at the foot of the portable wall | | | | It's the same name. |
| under his name. | | | | A motorcycle rider comes alone. For three days, he |
| "I had just become acquainted with VVA and the | | | | speaks to no one. Finally, Miner and others approach |
| more I saw of them, the better I liked them," she | | | | and offer him coffee. He declines, saying he wants |
| said. "You can't get any better friend than a Vietnam | | | | only to hear one name read. |
| veteran. They're just wonderful people. They're my | | | | They ask if he would like to read the name himself. |
| families. I have never met a Vietnam veteran I didn't | | | | "He read it," Miner said. "As soon as he did, he rode |
| love. I wish I could get more Gold Star Mothers | | | | off and we never saw him again." |
| active because they don't know the love they'e | | | | Charlene Moffitt, another Vermonter and the sister |
| missing. A lot of people ask me how can I get up | | | | of Clifton Bacon, who died in Vietnam in 1966, is the |
| and do it, and I tell them, "it's not how can I get up | | | | only member of her family who has touched his |
| and do it. I do it for my son." | | | | name. It's high on The Wall in Washington and when |
| When The Wall comes to a community, the | | | | she went there in 1982 for its dedication, someone |
| community invariably responds. When The Wall That | | | | showed her the ladder she could use. |
| Heals, sponsored by the Vietnam Veterans Memorial | | | | "When we buried him, it was never settled," she said. |
| Fund, came to Delaware County, Pa., George Brown | | | | "They sent him home in a sealed coffin. I didn't really |
| spoke of an "outpouring" of support. | | | | believe it was true. But when I saw his name on The |
| "You really don't know what to expect," he said. | | | | Wall, I thought, that's him." |
| "The things people left at The Wall showed how it | | | | Her sister, Christine Bacon, said The Wall "brought him |
| impacted them. Mementoes, the kind of thing you | | | | home." |
| find down at Washington. But knowing The Wall was | | | | "It was painful to see, but it confirmed it," she said. "I |
| temporary, you wouldn't expect the effort to make | | | | was only sixteen when he died. Charlene was |
| up the little things they left." | | | | eighteen, and it was like you couldn't believe it. It |
| A friend had gotten involved in the effort to bring | | | | brought him home. A lot of people in the 60s said a |
| The Wall That Heals to Delaware County. Brown | | | | lot of negative things. When The Wall came to |
| advised on the protocols that needed to be followed | | | | Bennington, it was like saying he's a good person and |
| and helped in the research. | | | | he's home again. We can be proud now. He's got his |
| "There's more awareness today of how people were | | | | own place now. We don't need to protect him |
| treated," he said. "There are still a lot of family | | | | anymore." |
| members around and we have quite a few Gold Star | | | | They grew up in a small town in a small state. There |
| Mothers in the county. But I talked to three or four | | | | were 14 children in their hometown and five of them |
| guys who had never been to The Wall." | | | | came from the Bacon family. Eight years separated |
| In Vermont in 1991, John Miner was one of them. | | | | the five. Clifton Bacon was 21 when he was drafted, |
| The Moving Wall had come to Rutland for two | | | | 22 when he died. |
| weeks. He couldn't bring himself to go until the last | | | | "The Moving Wall, the real Wall, it's hard, all those |
| day. Then friends said they were going and asked | | | | people, all those guys and women, what they went |
| him along. | | | | through," Charlene said. "I'll always go. If I could go |
| "I got up there and one of those weird things | | | | tomorrow, I'd go. |
| happened," he said. "A guy came up with a book and | | | | |